A Nigerian woman, Glory Okotie, said that co-parenting with her child’s father has been effective since she activated her “wickedness.”
Okotie, who disclosed this in a Facebook post on Friday, said co-parenting was marred by conflict and constant back and forth until she decided to stop listening to people. She said she changed her daughter’s surname to her maiden name after she started paying the child’s school fees and this made by in-laws to take more responsibility for the child.
“One thing that helped me co-parent effectively is that my child’s father knows I’m a very W1cked person. I have Urhobo and Igbo blood running through my veins so my wickedness is double,” she wrote.
We used to have back and forth until I stopped listening to anyone and activated my wickedness. The few times I paid my daughter’s fee, her surname was changed to mine. I no get time to follow you talk. When they saw the child and asked for her name, she said it with my surname. Everybody shock.
When they came to settle matter, I brought out my list and gave them the figure I’ve spent that I can remember and told them they must send me the money before I’ll listen. They brought out phone and sent me the money. I smiled and we started talking.
Now everybody is on their best behavior. Once I send list, I receive an alert. I hail him, He hails me back. Everyone is happy
