A Nigerian woman, Buithat Hudu Muhammad Lawal, has said that some women are not meant to be first wives.
The biochemist, who stated this in a Facebook post on Wednesday, advised single ladies to settle down with married men instead of using them as sugar daddies.
“Some of you single ladies, let’s be honest, your destinies are different. You were never meant to be the first wife. You’re meant to be the second, third, or even fourth,” she wrote.
But this modern-day ideology of “one man, one wife” is holding you back.
Instead of settling down with a responsible man who already has a wife, you keep chasing fairy tales.
You end up using the married men as sugar daddies or money machines, while allowing small boys with nothing to offer to toy with your heart.
In the end, you’ll be the one shouting “men are scarce.”
My sister, open your eyes. Look for a man with one wife and respectfully find where to chook head.
Don’t fight for position, just live in peace and enjoy your own share of love and stability.
